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Comment on How soon after a miscarriage is it possible to get pregnant again? by aznqt1981

aznqt1981 — Tue, 21 Feb 2012 10:31:07 +0000

sorry for your loss hon. i know exactly what you’re going thru. i had a miscarriage in july and i conceived like a week after w/o even realizing i had ovulated so soon. has your OB/DR followed up w/blood test to make sure your HCG levels went all the way down before you started trying again? i had a chemical pregnancy so mine went down pretty fast

Comment on When should I start an ovulation predictor test this month? by TTC#2- Becky Loves Jer Moo

TTC#2- Becky Loves Jer Moo — Mon, 20 Feb 2012 06:00:16 +0000

The box should tell you based on the number of days in your cycle.

Usually in a 28 day cycle ovulation would be day 14 so If you had your period march 16th it would be march 29th.

Did you mean April 16? I had my period April 17th and have 28 day cycle and am expecting ovulation around the begining of May so I am going to start OPK’s on cycle day 8

Comment on I’m supposed to get married tomorrow but I think I got another woman pregnant? by November Rain

November Rain — Fri, 17 Feb 2012 23:02:56 +0000

Like Ross said to Rachel (Friends) you guys were on a break. She suggested you see other people. Which you both did and then got back. I think you should try to reach your fiance some how and explain what happened or is happening. If she’s cool with it get married to her and plan on raising your baby.

Good Luck!! Hope everything works out well for you all…

Comment on I’m supposed to get married tomorrow but I think I got another woman pregnant? by fairypelican

fairypelican — Fri, 17 Feb 2012 22:33:35 +0000

1 thing in your favour is that the episode with this other woman did not occur while you were with your fiancee.
as others have stated DO get in touch with her ASAP!!!!!

In my opinion though you have both rushed into the marriage after having been apart for some time & hardly even talking in that time.

Be prepared for you fiancee to rant & rave & scream & call things off even though she may have been seeing someone else while you were apart.

Comment on I’m supposed to get married tomorrow but I think I got another woman pregnant? by monjufig

monjufig — Fri, 17 Feb 2012 22:08:07 +0000

its not your fault. But you need to tell her now. it may be too late, but you were broken up at the time. She cant get mad at you for that.

Comment on I’m supposed to get married tomorrow but I think I got another woman pregnant? by Jesse

Jesse — Fri, 17 Feb 2012 21:38:50 +0000

Track your fiance down ASAP! This is a face to face kinda situation. Go find her, right now! Tell her what happened, and let her know it happened when yall were broken up. Tell her how you feel–that you love her and want to marry her, but you will be a part of this child’s life if it is yours. Tell her family and friends to buzz off because you need to talk to her RIGHT NOW!

Comment on I’m supposed to get married tomorrow but I think I got another woman pregnant? by BBG

BBG — Fri, 17 Feb 2012 20:41:27 +0000

Call your fiancee’s family and tell them that this is a LIFE AND DEATH situation and you absolutely MUST talk to her. If you have to, tell them that you CANNOT MARRY HER without speaking to her first.

You cannot let her say, “I do” without her knowing what she is getting herself into.

Comment on I’m supposed to get married tomorrow but I think I got another woman pregnant? by Wishuponastar

Wishuponastar — Fri, 17 Feb 2012 20:34:38 +0000

Call her or her parents and tell them it is an emergency. Tell her tonight. Do not get married. Do not stand her up! Be man and go over to her house and tell her. Be honest or you will regret it for the rest of your life!! Please do the right thing. Good Luck

Comment on I’m supposed to get married tomorrow but I think I got another woman pregnant? by Vibiana

Vibiana — Fri, 17 Feb 2012 20:30:43 +0000

Well, first I would suggest you contact the bride’s parents and tell them you need to speak with the bride immediately, and if necessary, why.

If you don’t love this other woman, there is no need to break off with your fiancee, but you must give both women the truth about your circumstances.

Whether your booty call chooses to have the baby or get an abortion, you are going to be responsible for her. You will have to pay child support for the next 18 years and your fiancee has the right to know about this before she marries you even if it is only hours before.

There is one thing that’s in your favor. If booty call knew you were getting married tomorrow, she might just be messing with you. Also, no matter what she says, only a paternity test will tell you whether she’s pregnant because of you. That should be the next logical step.

Either way, you’re going to look and feel like an incredible dick for the next few weeks. Hope that booty call was worth it.

Comment on I’m supposed to get married tomorrow but I think I got another woman pregnant? by Haruna

Haruna — Fri, 17 Feb 2012 20:24:08 +0000

Well I’m sorry but I think your a *bad word insert here*
This is a similar story to yours, my mother got pregnant with me and when she told my “father” he ignored her and forgot he ever knew her like changed his phone number and never spooked to her. This is your responsibility and it is your fault you got this woman pregnant.

You have to tell your “soon to be wife” because if that “other woman” gives birth to that child and YOUR NOT THERE, your ex-fiance will sew you for money for child care for your baby and your new fiance will dump you. Just take responsibility for your own actions or be a jerk *insert rude comment here* and ditch the woman carrying YOUR CHILD. I am that child who never experienced a father or even a mother because I never see her because she is working all day trying to pay for my clothes, school, and food! STOP BEING A BABY AND TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR CHILD!